The Recruiting Roadmap:
Your Complete
Step-by-Step Guide
to Lacrosse Recruiting
180+ lessons built on 20+ years of working with college coaches. Learn what they actually look for—not what recruiting services want to sell you.
🏆 Created by Roy Colsey - US Lacrosse Hall of Fame
🥍 Former Head Coach, Carolina Chaos (Premier Lacrosse League)
👨👦👦 Father of 3 D1 Athletes: UVA, Duke, UNC
✅ Endorsed by coaches at UNC, Notre Dame, Dartmouth
coach testimonials
Endorsed by the Coaches Who Actually Make Recruiting Decisions
WELCOME FROM ROY COLSEY
Why I Built The Recruiting Roadmap
My name is Roy Colsey, and I've dedicated my life to the game of lacrosse —
as a player, a coach, and a parent.
I am a proud member of two lacrosse Hall of Fames and a former coach in the Premier Lacrosse League. Over the years, I've been fortunate to experience this game at every level:
🥇 3× World Champion with the Philadelphia Barrage (MLL)
🥍 1st Team All-Pro with the New York Saints (NLL), where I played for multiple teams over a long professional career
🏆 3× State Championship Head Coach at Ridgefield High School (CT)
🎓 4× All-American and 2× National Champion at Syracuse University (1993 & 1995)
🇺🇸 Member of the 2006 U.S. Men's National Team
🥈 Assistant Coach for Team USA (Indoor), winning the first-ever silver medal in international indoor competition
On the personal side, I'm also the proud father of three boys — Ryan (UVA), Kyle (Duke), and Christopher (UNC commit) — all of whom earned opportunities to play at top ACC programs with significant athletic scholarships.
Before guiding my own sons through the recruiting process, I spent over 20 years helping hundreds of high school players achieve their college goals. My teams and players have gone on to commit to some of the most prestigious lacrosse programs in the country.
I also ran one of the largest club programs in the Northeast — Superstar Lacrosse, which at its peak in 2017 included 17 teams under one umbrella.
Through these experiences, I've developed lasting relationships with many of today's Division I head coaches. We've competed against each other, collaborated on recruiting, and shared insights about the realities of college lacrosse.
Those relationships have been instrumental in shaping this course — giving me access to the kind of honest, inside perspective that players and families rarely get to hear.
Why I Created This Course
I built The Recruiting Roadmap because I kept seeing the same problem, year after year:
High school lacrosse players and their parents are not prepared for the recruiting process.
They don't fully understand the timeline, the rules, or the expectations.
They don't realize what really matters to college coaches — until it's too late.
This course is designed to solve that problem.
It's a clear, practical, and honest guide to every step of the recruiting journey —
from your first showcase to your final commitment.
What You'll Get from This Course
By the end of The Recruiting Roadmap, you'll have:
✅ A full understanding of how the recruiting process really works
✅ A clear timeline and actionable plan for each season
✅ The tools to communicate effectively with college coaches
✅ The confidence to make informed, educated decisions about your future
I'm excited to share this journey with you and your family.
Together, we'll follow The Recruiting Roadmap — one step at a time.
Let's get started.
— Coach Roy Colsey
the problem
You Can't Learn the Recruiting Process in an Hour—And You Know It
Every club has that 60-minute parent Zoom call.
Broad strokes. General timelines. Surface-level tips. The same advice everyone else gets.
And then it's over.
You walk away thinking "okay, I guess we're on track"—but deep down, you know you didn't get what you actually need.
Here's the truth:
You can't learn the recruiting process in an hour. And worse? You needed this information in August, not December.
So now you're late. And you have 5% of the information you actually need.
There are 11,000 players in the Class of 2028.
Only 4,400 will play college lacrosse.
Most families don't realize they're behind until it's too late. By the time they figure it out, coaches have already filled spots.
Don't let that be your son.
WHAT'S INCLUDED
What You'll Learn Inside The Recruiting Roadmap
180+ lessons that go deeper than any club Zoom ever will.
Understanding the Landscape—
And Where You Actually Stand
What You'll Learn:
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The actual Class of 2028 recruiting timeline (not the watered-down version)
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How many spots are really available—and how competitive it actually is
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D1 vs. D2 vs. D3 vs. Ivy: What's the real difference, and where does your son fit?
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What college coaches are looking for at each position (not just "good stick skills")
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Why some players rise in the rankings and others disappear
Building a Realistic Target School List
What You'll Learn:
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How to evaluate fit: Academic, athletic, financial, geographic
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Realistic 5-star, 4-star, and 3-star expectations (so you're not delusional)
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Reach schools vs. target schools vs. safety schools
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How to research programs beyond rankings and Twitter hype
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When and how to adjust your list as the process unfolds
Creating Recruiting Film
That Actually Gets Responses
What You'll Learn:
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What IL evaluators look for on film and in person (the exact criteria)
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Full game film vs. highlight film: When to use each
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How to structure highlights so coaches don't click away in 30 seconds
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Common film mistakes that get emails deleted immediately
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The exact process to earn a rating/ranking (and why some players never get one)
Email Outreach & Communication—
What Actually Works
What You'll Learn:
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How to write your first email to a coach (template included—no guessing)
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Subject lines that get opened vs. ones that get ignored
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When to send emails (timing matters more than you think)
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How to follow up without being annoying (there's a formula)
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What to do when coaches respond—and when they ghost you
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How your actions will help your club director (not undermine them)
Showcases, Prospect Days & Tournaments—
What Actually Matters
What You'll Learn:
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Which events truly move the needle with college coaches
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How to choose the right showcases for your son's level (and avoid wasting money)
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Prospect Day strategy: College-hosted vs. third-party (they're not all the same)
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What coaches are watching for at events (on the field and off)
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The steps families must take before June 15 if they want the best available options
The Unofficial Visit—
What Coaches Won't Tell You
What You'll Learn:
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When to visit schools (and when it's too early to bother)
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How to schedule and prepare for unofficial visits
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What to look for beyond the lacrosse facilities (fit matters more than you think)
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Questions to ask coaches, players, and academic advisors (the ones that reveal the truth)
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Post-visit follow-up that keeps you on the coach's radar
Navigating Interest & Offers—
Reading Between the Lines
What You'll Learn:
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How to know if a coach is actually interested (vs. just being polite)
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Understanding verbal commitments vs. official offers (there's a difference)
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When to commit and when to keep your options open
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How to handle multiple offers without burning bridges
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What happens if interest fades—and how to pivot without panicking
The Official Visit & Commitment—
The Final Steps
What You'll Learn:
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Official visit rules: What's allowed, what's not, what to expect
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How to evaluate programs during your official visit (beyond the sales pitch)
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Making the final decision: Fit vs. prestige vs. playing time
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How to announce your commitment (and why timing matters)
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What happens after you commit: Staying engaged with the program
Financial Aid & Scholarships—
The Real Numbers
What You'll Learn:
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How scholarships actually work across D1, D2, D3, and Ivy programs
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Understanding the NLI (National Letter of Intent)
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Negotiating financial aid packages (yes, you can negotiate)
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Academic scholarships vs. athletic scholarships: Stacking aid
For Parents—
How to Support Without Sabotaging
What You'll Learn:
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How to support your son without being overbearing (the fine line)
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When to step in and when to step back
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Managing expectations: Yours and his
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What to do if your son isn't getting interest (realistic pivots)
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Budgeting for recruiting: Showcases, travel, camps, and hidden costs
BONUS RESOURCES INCLUDED:
📧 Email Templates Library – Proven templates for first contact, follow-ups, post-event emails
📋 Target School List Worksheet – Step-by-step guide to building a realistic list
🎥 Film Review Checklist – Make sure your film includes what IL evaluators actually look for
📅 Timeline Calendar – Month-by-month breakdown from now through September 1st, 2026
💰 Scholarship Comparison Tool – Understand financial offers across all division levels
WHO THIS IS FOR
Is The Recruiting Roadmap Right for You?
THIS COURSE IS PERFECT FOR:
✅ Class of 2028 families (current sophomores) who are in the middle of the recruiting process right now
✅ Families who don't know where to start – You know recruiting is important, but you're overwhelmed and don't have a clear plan
✅ Families who can't afford $5K-10K recruiting services – You want expert guidance without breaking the bank
✅ Families who realize their club director isn't going to handle this – Your son isn't a top 10 national recruit, so you need to take control
✅ Families who want to do it right the first time – No wasted time, money, or missed opportunities
✅ Class of 2029 families (current freshmen) who want to get ahead and start early
THIS COURSE IS NOT FOR:
❌ Families with a nationally ranked top 20, 5-Star player (you probably don't need this)
❌ Families who aren't willing to put in the work (this course gives you the roadmap, but you have to execute)
❌ Families looking for someone to "do it for them" (this is education and guidance, not a full-service recruiting agency)
❌ Class of 2026 or older (you're too late in the process for this course to be fully effective)
WHAT HAPPENS AFTER YOU ENROLL
STEP 1: Instant Access As soon as you enroll, you'll get immediate access to all 180+ lessons. No waiting. Start learning today.
STEP 2: Work at Your Own Pace The course is completely self-paced. Binge it in a weekend or spread it out over weeks. You have lifetime access, so you can revisit lessons anytime.
STEP 3: Download the Resources Email templates, checklists, worksheets, timeline calendars—everything is downloadable so you can use them immediately in your son's recruiting process.
STEP 4: Take Action This isn't theory. Every lesson is designed to help you take the next step in your son's recruiting journey. You'll know exactly what to do and when to do it.
STEP 5: Get Support (Optional) Have questions as you work through the course? Join the Monthly Recruiting Clarity Zoom Calls ($39/month) for live Q&A with Roy, or email directly at info@rc3lacrosse.com.
your options
Choose the Option That's Right for Your Family, Team or Organization
OPTION 1: The Recruiting Roadmap (Self-Paced Course)
✅ 180+ lessons covering every step of the recruiting process
✅ Lifetime access—work at your own pace
✅ Email templates, checklists, worksheets, and calendars
✅ Learn what college coaches actually look for
Investment: $299 one-time payment
OPTION 2: Monthly Recruiting Clarity Zoom Calls
✅ Offered Monthly via a Group Zoom Session
✅ Monthly live group coaching with Roy Colsey
✅ Timeline-specific guidance (what to focus on right now)
✅ Live Q & A for your specific questions
✅ Stay accountable throughout the 12-month process
Investment: $39/Per Monthly Call (Zoom call)
OPTION 3: Private Group Session for Your Club or Organization
✅ Custom recruiting education session for your lacrosse club, booster club, or showcase
✅ Unlimited attendees from your organization
✅ 60-75 minute Zoom presentation + live Q&A
✅ Flat fee, custom topics
Investment: $1,500
Use the Form Below to Inquire About Private Zoom Sessions:
FAQ
Frequently Asked Questions
Q: How long do I have access to the course?
A: Lifetime access. Enroll once, access forever. Plus, you'll get any updates I make to the course as the recruiting landscape changes.
Q: Is this course only for Class of 2028?
A: The course is primarily built for Class of 2028 (current sophomores), but Class of 2029 (freshmen) can absolutely benefit by getting a head start. Class of 2027 (current juniors) can still use it, but you're already 12+ months into the process—you'll need to move fast.
Q: What if my son plays a different position? Does this still apply?
A: Yes. The recruiting process is the same regardless of position (attack, midfield, defense, goalie). I do include position-specific guidance where relevant—what coaches look for in each position, how to showcase skills on film, etc.
Q: Can I share this course with other families on my son's team?
A: No. Each enrollment is for one family. If your club or team wants to provide this to multiple families, reach out about Private Group Sessions where I'll present to your entire organization.
Q: Is this course self-paced or do I have to log in at specific times?
A: Completely self-paced. All 180+ lessons are available immediately when you enroll. Watch on your schedule—morning, night, weekends, whenever works for you.
Q: What if I have questions as I go through the course?
A: You can email me directly at info@rc3lacrosse.com, or join the Monthly Recruiting Clarity Zoom Calls($39/Monthly Zoom) for live Q&A where you can ask your specific questions.
Q: How is this different from hiring a recruiting service?
A: Recruiting services charge $3K-10K and often overpromise ("we'll get your son recruited!"). Many of them have mediocre credentials and no real relationships with college coaches.
I'm giving you the same information for $299—and it's based on what college coaches at UNC, Notre Dame, Dartmouth, and dozens of other programs actually told me they look for. You'll do the work, but you'll have the roadmap and the knowledge to do it right.
Q: What if my son doesn't end up playing college lacrosse?
A: That's a reality for 60% of players. But even if your son doesn't play in college, this course will teach him (and you) valuable lessons about goal-setting, self-advocacy, communication, and navigating competitive processes. Those skills transfer to life beyond lacrosse.
Q: Can I access the course on mobile?
A: Yes. The course is hosted on Thinkific, which works on desktop, tablet, and mobile. You can watch lessons anywhere.
Own your process
Don't Let Your Son Be in the 60% Who Don't Play in College
Class of 2028: You're 5 months into the recruiting process.
September 1st, 2026—when college coaches can officially contact your son—is 8 months away.
That sounds like a lot of time.
It's not.
Coaches are building their recruiting boards right now. Every week you wait, spots fill up. Every email you don't send, another family does. Every showcase you skip without a plan, your son gets passed over.
You have a choice:
You can keep guessing. Hope your club director handles it. Wait until junior spring and realize you're too late.
Or you can get the exact roadmap that's helped hundreds of families navigate recruiting successfully.
Built on 20+ years of working with college coaches at UNC, Notre Dame, Dartmouth, and dozens of other programs.
Endorsed by those same coaches. Used by families just like yours.
INVESTMENT: $299 – One-time payment, lifetime access
Questions? Email me at info@rc3lacrosse.com
Not ready to commit?
Join a Monthly Recruiting Clarity Zoom Call ($39) to see how I teach and ask your questions live.
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