RC3 LACROSSE
YOUR PERSONAL GUIDE ON THE RECRUITING JOURNEY
THE RECRUITING ROADMAP
The Recruiting Roadmap: Your Complete Step-by-Step Guide to College Lacrosse Recruiting
180+ lessons built on 20+ years of working with college coaches.
Learn what they actually look for—not what recruiting services want to sell you.
✅ Endorsed by D1 coaches at UNC, Notre Dame, Dartmouth
✅ 180+ lessons, lifetime access
✅ Join 100+ families already enrolled
THE PROBLEM (Why You Need This)
Most Families Don't Realize They're
Behind Until It's Too Late
There are 11,000 lacrosse players in the Class of 2028.
Only 4,400 will play college lacrosse.
The difference between the ones who get recruited and the ones who don't? Usually not talent.
It's process.
Most families wait for their club director to handle recruiting. But directors are focused on their top 5-10 players. If your son isn't one of them, you're on your own.
Most families don't start early enough. By the time they realize they're behind, coaches have already filled spots.
Most families don't know:
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How to build a realistic target school list
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What coaches actually want to see in recruiting film
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How to write emails that get responses (not ignored)
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The real timeline—and where they should be right now
The Recruiting Roadmap solves all of this.
WHAT'S INCLUDED
What You'll Learn Inside The Recruiting Roadmap
Understanding the Landscape
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The recruiting timeline: When things actually happen
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D1 vs. D2 vs. D3 vs. Ivy League: What's the real difference?
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How many spots are actually available (and how competitive it really is)
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What college coaches are looking for at each position
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Common myths that cost families opportunities
Building Your Target School List
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How to evaluate fit: Academic, athletic, financial, geographic
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Reach schools vs. target schools vs. safety schools
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How to research programs (beyond just rankings)
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Understanding scholarship realities (D1, D2, Ivy, D3)
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When and how to adjust your list
Creating Recruiting Film
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What coaches actually want to see (and what they don't)
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Full game film vs. highlight film: When to use each
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How to structure your highlights (opening sequence, clips, length)
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Common film mistakes that get emails deleted
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Platforms and hosting: Where to upload your film
Email Outreach & Communication
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How to write your first email to a coach (template included)
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Subject lines that get opened
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When to send emails (timing matters)
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How to follow up without being annoying
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What to do when coaches respond—and when they don't
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Phone call etiquette and what to say
Showcases, Prospect Days & Tournaments
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Which events actually matter
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How to choose the right showcases for your level
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Prospect Days: College-hosted vs. third-party
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How to get noticed at events (on and off the field)
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What to do after an event (follow-up is key)
The Unofficial Visit
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When to visit schools (and when it's too early)
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How to schedule and prepare for visits
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What to look for beyond the lacrosse facilities
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Questions to ask coaches, players, and academic advisors
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Post-visit follow-up
Navigating Interest & Offers
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How to know if a coach is actually interested (vs. just being polite)
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Understanding verbal commitments vs. official offers
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When to commit and when to keep your options open
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How to handle multiple offers
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What happens if interest fades
The Official Visit & Commitment
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Official visit rules and what to expect
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How to evaluate programs during your official
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Making the final decision
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How to announce your commitment
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What happens after you commit (staying engaged with the program)
Financial Aid & Scholarships
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How scholarships actually work (D1, D2, D3, Ivy)
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Understanding NLI (National Letter of Intent)
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Negotiating financial aid packages
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Academic scholarships vs. athletic scholarships
For Parents
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How to support your son without being overbearing
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When to step in and when to step back
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Managing expectations (yours and his)
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What to do if he's not getting interest
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Budgeting for recruiting (showcases, travel, camps)
BONUSES INCLUDED:
📧 Email Templates Library – Proven templates for first contact, follow-ups, post-event emails, and more
📋 Target School List Worksheet – Step-by-step guide to building a realistic list
🎥 Film Review Checklist – Make sure your highlights include what coaches want to see
📅 Timeline Calendar – Month-by-month breakdown from sophomore year through September 1st
💰 Scholarship Comparison Tool – Understand financial offers across D1, D2, D3, Ivy
WHO THIS IS FOR
Is The Recruiting Roadmap Right for You?
THIS COURSE IS PERFECT FOR:
✅ Class of 2028 families (current sophomores) who are in the thick of the recruiting process right now
✅ Families who don't know where to start – You know recruiting is important, but you're overwhelmed and don't have a clear plan
✅ Families who can't afford $5K-10K recruiting services – You want expert guidance without breaking the bank
✅ Families who realize their club director isn't going to handle this – Your son isn't a top 10 national recruit, so you need to take control
✅ Families who want to do it right the first time – No wasted time, money, or missed opportunities
THIS COURSE IS NOT FOR:
❌ Families with a top-50 nationally ranked player who already has D1 interest (you probably don't need this)
❌ Families who aren't willing to put in the work (this course gives you the roadmap, but you have to execute)
❌ Families looking for someone to "do it for them" (this is education and guidance, not a full-service recruiting agency)
WHY TRUST ROY COLSEY?
Recruiting Guidance from Someone Who's
Been on Every Side of the Process
AS A PLAYER:
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4x All-American, Syracuse University
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2x National Champion
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3x World Champion (Major League Lacrosse)
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US Lacrosse Hall of Fame & Professional Lacrosse Hall of Fame
AS A COACH:
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Former Head Coach, Carolina Chaos (Premier Lacrosse League)
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High school coach with hundreds of players guided through recruiting
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20+ years of direct relationships with college coaches at every level
AS A PARENT:
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Navigated recruiting with three sons who committed to UVA, Duke, and UNC
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I know what it's like to be in your shoes—the stress, the uncertainty, the questions
TRUSTED BY DIVISION 1 COACHES:
“When Roy talks about recruiting, it’s worth listening.” — Joe Breschi, Head Coach, UNC
“I’ve worked with Coach Colsey for 20+ years. His recruiting insight is spot on.” — Ryan Wellner, Notre Dame Assistant Coach
“Roy strikes the perfect balance between advocating for families and staying realistic — a rare trait in this space.” — Sean Kirwan, Head Coach, Dartmouth
TESTIMONIALS
What Families Are Saying About The Recruiting Roadmap
“This course is the best investment we’ve made in our son’s lacrosse journey. Roy’s insight into the recruiting world is unmatched. We learned things we never would have known, and his step-by-step system helped our son stand out at the right events at the right times. He committed to his top-choice school, and we truly believe this course played a huge role.” — Parent of a 2027 Midfielder
Chris
Westchester County, CT
“Having a son who has worked with Roy for years at both the elite box and high school levels, we’ve seen firsthand how well he understands the game and what it takes to develop a player for college lacrosse. But what truly sets Roy apart, and what we didn’t realize we needed until we were in the middle of it, is his deep understanding of the entire recruiting process. As parents, we thought we had a good handle on things, but once the official recruiting process started, it became very clear how unprepared we actually were. Roy helped us make sense of everything with honest, straightforward guidance, and in just a few weeks we learned more than we ever expected. We only wish we had known all of this earlier! Finding someone who can coach, mentor, develop players, and expertly navigate the recruiting landscape is incredibly difficult. When you do find that person, they become truly invaluable. For us, Roy has been that person, and investing in his Recruiting Roadmap has saved us a great deal of time, money, and stress!”
Marc L.
Fairfield County, CT
***The Recruiting Roadmap launched in December 2024. Additional testimonials from families coming soon.***
FAQ
Frequently Asked Questions
Q: How long do I have access to the course?
A: Lifetime access. Enroll once, access forever. Plus, you'll get any updates I make to the course as the recruiting landscape changes.
Q: Is this course only for Class of 2028?
A: The course is primarily built for Class of 2028 (current sophomores), but Class of 2029 (freshmen) can absolutely benefit by getting a head start. Class of 2027 (current juniors) can still use it, but you're already 12+ months into the process—you'll need to move fast.
Q: What if my son plays a different position? Does this still apply?
A: Yes. The recruiting process is the same regardless of position (attack, midfield, defense, goalie). I do include position-specific guidance where relevant—what coaches look for in each position, how to showcase skills on film, etc.
Q: Can I share this course with other families on my son's team?
A: No. Each enrollment is for one family. If your club or team wants to provide this to multiple families, reach out about Private Group Sessions where I'll present to your entire organization.
Q: Is this course self-paced or do I have to log in at specific times?
A: Completely self-paced. All 180+ lessons are available immediately when you enroll. Watch on your schedule—morning, night, weekends, whenever works for you.
Q: What if I have questions as I go through the course?
A: You can email me directly at info@rc3lacrosse.com, or join the Monthly Recruiting Clarity Zoom Calls($39/Monthly Zoom) for live Q&A where you can ask your specific questions.
Q: How is this different from hiring a recruiting service?
A: Recruiting services charge $3K-10K and often overpromise ("we'll get your son recruited!"). Many of them have mediocre credentials and no real relationships with college coaches.
I'm giving you the same information for $299—and it's based on what college coaches at UNC, Notre Dame, Dartmouth, and dozens of other programs actually told me they look for. You'll do the work, but you'll have the roadmap and the knowledge to do it right.
Q: What if my son doesn't end up playing college lacrosse?
A: That's a reality for 60% of players. But even if your son doesn't play in college, this course will teach him (and you) valuable lessons about goal-setting, self-advocacy, communication, and navigating competitive processes. Those skills transfer to life beyond lacrosse.
Q: Can I access the course on mobile?
A: Yes. The course is hosted on Thinkific, which works on desktop, tablet, and mobile. You can watch lessons anywhere.
Don't Let Your Son Be in the 60% Who Don't Play in College.
The Recruiting Roadmap gives you the process,
the timeline, and the templates to get it done right.
INVESTMENT: $299 – One-time payment, lifetime access
Questions? Email me at info@rc3lacrosse.com or join the $39 Monthly Zoom Call to preview a section of the live course presentation
